Kids are naughty and there is no denying it, but when kids throw tantrums for silly reasons it is bound to affect you as well as others near you.
Here are some of the ways by which you can manage to control your child.
Detachment
It could be an easy or a hard method depending on how you are trying to deal with the tantrum. As the word says 'detachment' - you have to stay away from your kid's tantrum no matter how unruly he/she behaves.
You do not have to do anything different, just continue doing what you are doing and not react or pay attention to the child.
It may be a difficult when you are already infuriated and trying to control it.
By not talking it will not you serve the purpose, you will also have to keep a straight face instead of a red and angry face.
Might be easier if you left the vicinity and waited till you calmed down.
A good outcome can be achieved only when you maintain your body language, tongue and lastly your face.
When you kid has calmed down and comes back to you do not scold him/her with your angry red face.
Try to remain neutral and continue the conversation with him/her.